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  • Spiritual Direction Program
    Beginning Fall 2024

    Completed applications must be emailed to [email protected] by May 31, 2024.
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    • What is Spiritual Direction?

      Spiritual Direction is help given by a trained Spiritual Director (clergy or trained layperson) to another person through confidential, ongoing conversation. It is a relationship between the director and the one being directed.  Also, it is an encounter with God that two people participate in together. The purpose of the relationship is that the one being directed might grow closer in their relationship with God. In short, it's an opportunity for mentorship in developing a relationship with God.

    • Who should be a Spiritual Director?

      Are you currently in Spiritual Direction?  Are you a good listener for others?  Are you able to hear the Good Lord's guidance? 
      You may be called to be a Spiritual Director.

      Beginning in September 2024, the Archdiocese of Oklahoma City will facilitate a school to train prospective Catholic Spiritual Directors. The program will consist of two (2) years of formation via classroom instruction once a month on Saturdays,  followed by one (1) year of practicum experience under personalized supervision. Applications will be accepted in April and May of 2024.
       

      A Catholic spiritual director will:
      • be a practicing Catholic, male or female, in good standing with the Church.
      • have a well-formed understanding of Catholic spiritual direction.
      • not engage in psychoanalysis but will, through prayer and the leading of the Holy Spirit, assist others in the discernment of God’s will in their lives.
      • understand the expectations for Spiritual Direction in the Archdiocese of Oklahoma City.
      • be able to maintain a schedule that facilitates periodic direction sessions with their directees.
      • identify areas for prayer, reflection, and further discussion in the next scheduled session with their directees.  
      • make recommendations for reflection material.
      • pray with directees, asking for the leading of the Holy Spirit and the intercession of the Blessed Mother and the saints.

       

  • About the Program

    • Program Overview
    • Course Descriptions
    • Eligibility
    • Program Timeline
    • Program Cost
    • Application Process
    Program Overview
    • Program Overview

      “Go, therefore, and make disciples of all nations…”- Matthew 28:19

      Mission:
      The challenges of today can only be rectified and healed by the grace of God, who we encounter in prayer in order to build a relationship with Him. Many of the faithful need guidance in how to pray. This guidance can best be met with a spiritual guide, who is traditionally known as a spiritual director.

      The discipleship process is outlined in Archbishop Coakley’s pastoral letter “Go Make Disciples.” This pathway will be our guide to create a program that will form prayerful, thoughtful and well-trained spiritual directors. This pathway is Encounter, Accompany, Community and Send.

      Program Overview:
      The program entails three (3) years of formation. Year 1 and Year 2 consist of classroom instruction 1x/month on Saturdays. Year 3 is a practicum year during which the candidate will provide spiritual direction to two to three directees, under monthly supervision and guidance.

      Expert instructors in each subject are essential for establishing a high-quality program aimed at producing the best trained spiritual directors. By creating our own program, we have the flexibility to open some of these courses to non-candidates who wish to attend. This also allows us to supply high quality continuing education to current spiritual directors by having them attend select classes.

       

    Course Descriptions
    • Course Descriptions

      Year 1 Year 2 Year 3
      Spiritual Direction 1
      Missionary Discipleship 1
      Missionary Discipleship 2
      Discernment 1
      Discernment 2
      Praying Sacred Scripture 1
      Praying Sacred Scripture 2
      Christian Anthropology 1

      Christian Anthropology 2
      Listening

      3-day Ignatian Retreat
      Spiritual Direction 2
      Grief, Suffering and Healing 1
      Grief, Suffering and Healing 2
      Spiritual Theology 1
      Spiritual Theology 2
      Moral Theology and Ethics 1
      Moral Theology and Ethics 2
      Spirituality of the Saints 1
      Spirituality of the Saints 2
      Spiritual Direction 3

      3-day Ignatian Retreat
      Practicum 1
      Practicum
      2

      Course parameters:
      • 5 hours guided instruction per course
      • Courses will meet one Saturday per month
      • 1+ course texts to be read prior to each course session
      • 400-600 word essay, with concluding question directed to fellow classmates, posted to shared discussion site, due subsequent to each monthly course session
      • 100–200 word response to at least one (1) other students’ essay per month
      • 1500–2000 word quarterly paper on student’s topic of choice, pending program director approval

      Program lead is responsible for grading all written work and providing feedback to students.

      Read the full course descriptions

    Eligibility
    • Eligibility

      A Catholic spiritual director will:

      • be a practicing Catholic, male or female, in good standing with the Church.
      • have a well-formed understanding of Catholic spiritual direction.
      • not engage in psychoanalysis but will, through prayer and the leading of the Holy Spirit, assist others in the discernment of God’s will in their lives.
      • understand the expectations for Spiritual Direction in the Archdiocese of Oklahoma City.
      • be able to maintain a schedule that facilitates periodic direction sessions with their directees.
      • identify areas for prayer, reflection, and further discussion in the next scheduled session with their directees.  
      • make recommendations for reflection material.
      • pray with directees, asking for the leading of the Holy Spirit and the intercession of the Blessed Mother and the saints.

      Applicants should be at least 35 years of age and a registered parishioner at a parish in the Archdiocese of Oklahoma City for at least one year.
    Program Timeline
    • Timeline

      • April - May 2024
        • Application period.
      • September 2024
        • Inagural cohort begins formation.
      • September 2024 - August 2025
        • Year 1 - Classroom Instruction.
      • September 2025 - August 2026
        • Year 2 - Classroom Instruction.
      • September 2026 - August 2027
        • Year 3 - Practicum.
        • Next cohort begins formation.
    Program Cost
    • Program Cost

      There is a suggested donation of $25 per month.  This is not required and should not be an obstacle to your ability to participate in the program.  

    Application Process
    • Application Process

      Prospective candidates will:
      1. Download the application form.
      2. Complete the application. The application will require you to:
        • intial all statements regarding committments of the program
        • provide general, Catholic background, ministerial participation, and work history
        • submit written/typed responses to all short essay questions
        • provide names and contact information for three (3) references:
          • your spiritual director
          • the pastor at your parish
          • one (1) additional person who knows you well
      3. Email the application to [email protected].

      Program directors will review applications, contact references, and follow up to schedule interviews with prospective candidates.
       
  • Frequently Asked Questions

    • When are applications due?
      • Applications are due by the end of May 2024.

    • Is there an interview after the application?
      • Yes. Interviews will take place in June and July of 2024.

    • When will classes start?
      • The first class is scheduled for September 7, 2024.

    • What is the cost of the program?
      • There is a suggested donation of $25 per month.  This is not required and should not be an obstacle to your ability to participate in the program.

    • Who are the instructors?
      • We are seeking instructors who are experts in the field in which they are teaching. Tentative instructors so far are: Betsy McNeil, Dr. Larann Wilson, Fr Robert Kroll, SJ, Dr. Ralph Martin, Fr. Jacques Philippe and Father Hung Pham, SJ. We are pursuing several others at this time.

    • Where will the courses be offered?
      • In the Oklahoma City area.

    • Will there be a Skype/Zoom option?
      • We value in person opportunities in order to facilitate a sense of community. While exceptions may have to be made, these would be rare exceptions.

    • Will this program be available to those outside of the Archdiocese of Oklahoma City?
      • Priority is given to those who are registered members of parishes within the Archdiocese of Oklahoma City for at least one year. It is possible that others could be accepted from other diocese(s) if room is available.  This would, however, entail an additional cost.

    • Will people outside of the program candidates be able to attend some courses?
      • Some courses will allow for portions to be open to the public. Some courses will be closed. Some courses will be open to current Spiritual Directors as continuing education. Most courses will be open to priests of the Archdiocese. In all of these circumstances, the candidates will be seated up front and will be the only ones to ask questions, should they arise.

    • I noticed there are some written assignments for the courses. How long should it take for these to be evaluated and for candidates to be notified?
      • Responses will be returned within 1 month at the most. These may be returned much sooner (within 2 weeks), when permitted by the season and other obligations.

    • Do people need to be in active spiritual direction in order to apply?
      • Yes.

        If you are in need of a spiritual director or have an obstacle to this requirement, please contact Deacon Joe Vandervort at [email protected] or (405) 709-2714.

    • There are retreats planned within each year. Are these going to be offered at different times?
      • Yes, there will be a few options each year.  Retreats will be silent.

  • Other Resources

    • About Spiritual Direction
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      • Deacon Joe Vandervort
        Deacon Joe Vandervort
        Coordinator, Altum Institute
        (405) 709-2714
        jvandervortarchokc.org
 
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